It occurs to me that to focus on a different state, you have to stop acknowledging the current reality. Ever notice the blowhards who are not as good as they believe they are. There may be a difference between dismissing accountability and a desire to be excellent, but I propose that maybe telling them apart isn’t as straightforward as one would think. Someone who isn’t as good as he/she thinks may simply be pushing the envelope. Trying to enter a new reality. Perhaps it is less refusing reality as it is refusing a current status quo.